Father to the
Fatherless
by Stephen Painter
Try to imagine
growing up fatherless. I can't. It's something that I've taken for granted for
almost twenty years. I don't know your story, but I do know that almost every
junior intern in the program has never experienced a father. Let me clarify.
Many know or have heard of their biological fathers, but I could count on one
hand the number I've met who have grown up with one that legitimately cares,
protects, provides, and leads them. I see in them a missing piece I've never had
to live without. This reality struck me like a knife to the heart today in our
huddle group time.
Studying different characteristics
of God in pursuit of learning how to adore and worship Him, I noticed
"Abba" on our list of options. As if I'd found gold, I immediately
pointed it out and began to ask them about it. The passage provided was Romans
8:15:
For
you did not receive the Spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have
received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, "Abba! Father!"
After noting that
this was a call out to God as a dad, one intern asked, "What does that
mean to me?" Another intern then recalled a story of his father returning
from prison and him asking his father, "Why do I need you?" His mom
had been the provider and he wondered what his dad could do that his mom didn't
already have under control. At this point, I was able to describe the personal
relationship that I've had with my father growing up. I emphasized what he
emphasized to me when raising me: faith, wisdom, integrity, love, proper
treatment of women, giving, and a servant-heart. Recognizing that every dad is
imperfect, whether he's there or not, we were able to convey God as The Father
who lovingly created them with inherent worth. Psalms 139:13-14 paint a
beautiful picture of this. He is the Father they need. He is the Father to the
fatherless.
Before closing, I'd like to note
that being fatherless is not their only obstacle. I point it out because I
perceive it to be one of the hardest to overcome. Please be praying that God
would use the discipleship of this summer to sanctify and transform the hearts
of us (the senior interns), the junior interns especially, and those that we
are ministering to. Thank you for your affection and prayer!
"The Lord Jesus
Christ be with your spirit. Grace be with you. Amen." - 2 Timothy 4:22
In Christ,
Stephen
Excellent Stephen! You give us great Joy! The peace of Christ be with you.
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